Waiting for the day that always comes?

I sometimes feel like I jinx myself by waiting for the day that always comes? It does not matter what it is except that "it" is not good. You see we all know trials are going to come. We just don't want to believe they are going to happen to us. Then when they do we are not prepared because they were unexpected mentally. So, do we walk around like chicken little waiting for the sky to fall? No, I think it is more a confidence in who is looking out for you when trials come.